My beautiful lady friends, here is a little message from my heart to yours. Take a moment to yourselves, go down the street and sit at Starbucks, getaway for a weekend but alone or even take a drive somewhere. The purpose for this is to be free, to free your mind and to analyze your self-worth, your value, and how high are your standards? What do you want out of life? What is your purpose? Where do you see yourself in five years from now? Think about what YOU want and not what is the RIGHT thing, don’t get loss into societies rules. Don’t ever settle for easier career, or the easier job, and put your dreams aside because of fear of accomplishing the harder task. If you know what you want follow your heart and go for it. I fell in love with this quote, “If your dreams do not scare you they are not big enough.” You can achieve what you put your heart and mind to no matter how far or how big it may SEEM. If you thought of it and you dreamed of it, you can have it. Don’t ever settle for a man who gave you a little bit of attention, someone you don’t really know, and someone who has blinded you with an act of kindness. Everyone you meet is kind, loving, charming at the beginning. When applying for a job you need to write a résumé. On this résumé you list your qualifications, achievements, and your skills. On a résumé you never list your flaws, what you lack in or your weaknesses, the employer sees this with TIME after being hired. The same goes with dating, this man is going to show you his résumé, and he will SEEM perfect. Please do not ever settle, every woman is entitled to God’s best. When you settle you are giving up someone you love or something of value for less than desired. You give up on yourself. Settling automatically devalues your worth. You fall into this state of mind that you are not able to satisfy your needs or wants and you end up choosing someone or something of lower standards or value. So I repeat, getaway, analyze your life and your lifestyle. What is it that you want? Do you see your growth in five years? Do not settle ladies, know your worth!